Wednesday, October 04, 2006
Half Empty: Raising the bar
They say that when you hit your 40s, your life is half over. We prefer to think of it as HALF EMPTY. Our age has finally caught up with our outlook on life. Remember, it is possible to turn that frown upside down...but you might pull a muscle.
"Raising the bar"
By Rick Kaempfer & Dave Stern
It’s now considered a cliché: “I gave it 110% effort.”
We’re not here to argue the mathematical impossibility of that statement. We accept the fact that some people are so driven, so hard-working, and so intense, that to describe their full effort as merely 100% seems insufficient. And we tip our caps to them.
The Rest of Us
“If you don’t like your job, you don’t strike! You just go in there every day and do it really half-assed. That’s the American way!”
Unfortunately, for those of you who like to do things a little... ahem...half-hearted, that raises the bar for you too. It’s no longer good enough to simply give it 50% effort. You’re now expected to give it 55% just to remain half-assed. We know what you’re thinking. Where are you going to get that extra 5%?
This is where you good buddies Rick and Dave come in. We’ve done a careful analysis of some every day tasks in life, and have managed to identify a few tasks that can very easily be third assed, quarter-assed, and fifth-assed. This will give you excess effort to put into more important pursuits. Your new results could get you to the 60% mark.
Don’t worry about having too much effort on your hands. It’s just a matter of time before someone takes it up to 120% effort. When they do, you’ll be able to wear your half-ass like a comfortable old shoe.
33% Effort Required
“A pint of sweat saves a gallon of blood.”
George S. Patton, General (1885-1945)
What General Patton said may be true, but remember this: The blood banks give you a free snack for the blood you donate, and nobody gives you anything for your sweat. You might as well keep that precious moisture in your body. You’re going to need it, because let’s face it, the refrigerator is all the way on the other side of the room, and that beverage won’t come to you by itself.
So where can you cut back? Since you’re already giving it the full 50% at work (because they are paying you do to so), the first place to look for opportunities is at home. While your family does expect you to do certain things for them, they don’t expect you to do them well. After all, these people are your blood. Right, General Patton?
Here are a few examples in which the good ol’ 33% effort is more than enough.
*Giving Backrubs To Your Wife – Now, we’re not saying don’t give your wife a back massage. We’re just saying don’t get particularly good at it. Two reasons: 1) The better you are, the longer she’s going to want you to do it and quite frankly, it hurts. 2) If you get really good at it, she’s going to tell all her friends and that’s going to tick off your buddies. Go through the motions and make sure you can still see the TV.
*Reading to Toddlers—They can’t read, and there’s very little chance they will care or notice if you skip paragraphs or entire pages. They’re looking at the pictures. Point out the different things in the pictures. “Look, honey, the pig. Can you say ‘pig’? Good. Can you say ‘The End’? Good. Sleep tight, sweetheart.” We know you just read her a Duck on a Bike and went from the pig to the goat and totally blew off the chicken, mouse and cow and it made no sense, but remember this: It’s about poultry riding two-wheelers. How much sense could it ever make?
25% Effort Required
“If you cut every corner,
It is really not so bad.
Everybody does it,
Even Mom and Dad.
If nobody sees,
Then nobody gets mad.
It’s the American Way!”
--Mary Poppins (on the Simpsons)
While it’s important to start cutting corners wherever you can, you have to give it some thought and plan ahead. With a little forethought, your every day tasks can be done with little to no effort. It’s a crucial component for eventually reaching that magical 55% threshold.
*Selecting Fruit –We’ve all seen the way people pluck, smell, rattle, shake and listen to kiwi before they buy it. There is absolutely no proof that any of this helps. Here’s a tip, if you see any tire tracks or hypodermic needles in the fruit don’t buy it.
*Grilled Cheese Sandwiches – You could get out the frying pan, butter both sides of the bread, and make it the old fashioned way. Or, you could put two pieces of bread in the toaster, then put a piece of cheese between the toasted bread, and microwave it for twenty seconds. Your choice—it tastes pretty much the same.
*Shoveling Snow – OK, due to certain municipal ordinances you have to do this one. Yet, there is nothing in the law that says you have to be good at it. Make a single shovel width path and that’s it. There is no need to clean the entire sidewalk or be neat. When was the last time the Vienna Boys choir walked in front of your house? Oh and by the way, have you ever heard of the sun?
*Washing the Car – You’ll hear all sorts of doomsayers tell you that allowing the winter salt to remain on your car will cause rust eventually. This is true. Ten years from now, when the car is worth squat, it will begin to rust. This may cost you a hundred bucks or so...ten years from now. Your time is worth much more than that. If the good Lord wanted you to wash the car, he wouldn’t have invented nature’s car wash: Rain.
*Balancing Your Check Book – In the history of the world there have been exactly three people who have found bank errors. Those three people got a total credit of $1.26. Have you gotten an overdraft notice? No? Then what’s the problem?
*Laundry – Wash everything in warm. Dry everything on medium. End of story.
20% Effort Required
“Why push when you go through a revolving door? Somebody else will show up sooner or later.”
There are some tasks that even the “110% effort people” don’t do with full gusto. Those that do should be put away before they harm someone. Here are tasks that require no more than 20% effort. You owe it to yourself and your rest.
*Flossing – Most dentists feel you should spend up to 3 minutes everyday flossing. Who’s got that much time? They say you should count about ten up and down strokes on each tooth. Do the math. Most people have 28 teeth, that’s 280 strokes! Talk about overkill. Just get the big hunks of the Heath Bar in front and you’re fine. Our buddy Nick agrees and he’s a dentist. He also wanted us to mention that he takes all major medical and is open 6 days a week.
*Selecting Greeting Cards for Men – You’re a guy. You’re buying a card for a guy. Just take the first card you see. He won’t care. Honestly, he doesn’t read them. If you don’t believe me, next time watch his eyes while he is “reading” your card. They don’t move. All of us have practiced that dopey smile and head nod. This of course only pertains to serious cards. For the mean funny cards we’ve also practiced the fake laugh. Trust us, if you’re giving a bald guy a wacky birthday card he’s seen it before. We open the card and look for cash, after that it’s all show.
*Making the Bed – Unless you live in a studio apartment, there’s an invention that can help you overcome the need to make your bed. It’s called a bedroom door. Close it. Let’s face it, you won’t be entertaining guests in the bedroom (if you do, we want to party with you), and you don’t care if your bed is made or not. Door closed: Case closed.
Doing the Math
Society is changing, and you have to change with it.
If you follow our simple suggestions, your effort reservoir will begin to fill up. A quarter effort here, a third effort here, a fifth effort there, and before you know it, you’ll be up past 55%--the new half-assed water mark.
No need to thank us for helping you get there. It’s not worth the effort.