I thought this post had some good points about the terrible, terrible advice given to girls in magazines and books.
When I go to the supermarket and see the headlines on the cover of women's magazines, I just shake my head. Most of them offer ways to turn on your man. Look, ladies, I don't want to give away too much here, but you're really overthinking this. If you're having trouble in this area, you are almost certainly with a gay man or a blind man. Even a man having "problems" has the strength to drag side-by-side bathtubs to the top of a mountain, and take a little pill.
If your man is not interested, get him to an eye doctor. If his vision is 20/20, set him up with your hairdresser and look for another man.
Problem solved.